Monday, October 31, 2011

How to Feel Not-So-Far Away From Home

Even though Montreal has become my new home in these past two years, every once in a while I still find myself wishing I could snuggle up on my couch with my Mom and a home-cooked meal. I normally start to feel homesick in times of high stress, so it makes sense that I'm missing home in the midst of all my midterms and assignments.
When I get homesick, the first thing I try to do is blow off some steam and do something that makes me happy and relaxed, like watching a movie with friends. I also love big outings with the crew where we either cook or go out for dinner together. It's a nice way to catch up with everyone when you haven't heard from them in a while, and brings everyone closer together. Surrounding yourself with friends is a nice reminder that home isn't necessarily a location; it's also your loved ones!

The next thing I always like to do is call or skype my mama. It's always nice to reconnect with your family when you're missing them. No one can cheer you up quite like your mom when you're feeling down! She always knows what to say.
If talking to the fam isn't enough to get you out of your funk, plan a weekend home. I'm going home for American Thanksgiving at the end of November, which I didn't do last year. I regretted it a lot, since it was the first time my friends were all reunited since we had started school in August. Now, I can look forward to my visit home, and it makes my homesick days a little less gloomy!

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